I wish I was indifferent to it as I am with so many other mangas/animes. I watched the anime many many years ago and hated its guts, and then every time it pops up among the вЂњmost realisticвЂќ or вЂњbest romanceвЂќ or вЂњbest shoujoвЂќ, I fume. I googled вЂњwhy I hate Bokura ga ItaвЂќ and came here for you to say exactly whatвЂ™s on my mind. I think itвЂ™s too heavy even if the earlier parts took place in a high school setup. PPS: A little warning though, if youвЂ™re still planning to read this manga after all thatвЂ¦if youвЂ™re looking for a legit shoujo, maybe this isnвЂ™t for you. And I sincerely hoped she remained that way. Just as Nana was distrustful of him, so was I.

Not even when Yano thought he loved Nana. Her view on pre-marital sex (on the first half of the manga)вЂ¦the way she claimed that she wouldnвЂ™t be lured into YanoвЂ™s similarly inexplicable charisma. She appeared to me as someone who uses her brain instead of eating it. Since she came out to me as a character with principles and convictions. I would even have understood Sengenji, but not these two. In Nana and TakeuchiвЂ™s case, I found none. BUT this is on the premise that you are fighting for something.

It doesnвЂ™t matter so long as you keep your love alive. Now I know that my previous entry says that the more human you are, the more illogical you become. Do you seriously think that an infatuation without stable foundation would last? Are you out of your mind? This alone cancels out everything that happened in the college and post-grad arc. WeвЂ™re done with my regrets but really? Just because love hurts yadda yadda?Дo you really think such illogical thing exists? Even the reason why on freaking earth a good guy such as Takeuchi would hold on to his feelings for his high school crush was not explained. I still read it until the end even if I tried the anime and couldnвЂ™t even finish halfway the series. I held on to this manga because the ratings were so promising. I literally wanted to cry out of frustration. I would neither think of depending on a guy like him nor would I ever think of wasting my energy saving him from the deep shit he created for himself. HeвЂ™s selfish and his kind gestures are not something the guy next door couldnвЂ™t offer. Hers is similar to shallow love built on physical attraction.В I would have understood if he treated her with care while they were together but he just keeps on giving her bad memories while trying to be oh-so-mysterious with his past love. I know we canвЂ™t let go of love so easily but I just donвЂ™t get where NanaвЂ™s persistence is coming from. And I have to applaud her for being able to let Yano go and realize her stupidity by the end of 15th volume. Even Yamamoto turned out to be more developed a character than her! At least Yamamoto had the shitty attempt to change herself with cosmetics. So when I realized that Nana is not moving forward, I started to hate her too. I even hate the fact that Yano scores high in exams even if he sleeps in class. Takeuchi is kind and handsome but, for some odd reasons, he just keeps losing to Yano. But he just isnвЂ™t! He isnвЂ™t that handsome either. I would have understood the attraction if he was like Kazehaya of Kimi ni Todoke. Why does everybody love him? ItвЂ™s not just logical for someone to be charismatic while maintaining such arrogance. But for the life of Peter, it is not just possible for her to hold on to that feelings for such a long time with such ridiculous takeoff point IYKWIM.В Even after knowing about what Yano did to his ex-girlfriendвЂ™s sister. And we all know that love is crazy so it could be possible for her to feel that вЂsomethingвЂ™. This is sad but she fell in love because of the simple fact that Yano smiled at her. But, somehow, at the rooftop, after their small talk and YanoвЂ™s smile, she suddenly feels something. Why DID she fall in love with Yano? She told her classmates that she was different. Go back to chapter 1вЂ¦or was it 2 when she started to realize that she has feelings for the guy? When her heart went вЂthump thumpвЂ™ with all the flowery feels and shadings. Why? LetвЂ™s talk about NanaвЂ™s love for starters. I would have appreciated the angst if it was justifiable but (and yet again) it didnвЂ™t work. And yes, at the end of the day, I still hate Yano. The manga just revealed the reasons why such a hateable character exists. Yano thinks he has to punish himself.) ItвЂ™s tiring. The issue is the same all throughout (Yano canвЂ™t trust anyone. Only that it doesnвЂ™t escalate the way I imagine it will. Perhaps they were talking about the college and post-grad arc but really. To be fair, I read all 64 chapters of it. I know she put a lot of effort drawing it and making such story line. First, I like to apologize to the mangaka for saying such thing.

Bokura ga ita manga chapter 21